Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
Why this outfit works. #fashion #style Why this outfit works. #fashion #style
Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Gi Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Give a man three beers and he will make TikTok’s with you in your living room. #marriage
23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. #anniver 23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. 
#anniversary #marriage #piscesarieslove
Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dres Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dressing theory is two fold. 

First, try things. You are going to be stuck if you always go with a comfortable formula. 

Second, if YOU think YOU look good then go with it. You don’t need someone else seal of approval.
Friday. Friday.
Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701 Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701
Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style is about trying new things and to be honest it’s about getting things wrong now and then. What do you think?  Are you pro color palette or pro trying anything?

P.S. peep @caleb.blaine in the background
Trends I’m here for? Chunky necklaces. #spring #t Trends I’m here for?  Chunky necklaces. #spring #trends #trending #goldenlily @shopgoldenlily
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Beauty · November 2, 2018

Beauty Counter

My goal in the second half of this year was to write about beauty once a month.  I am not a beauty blogger but as I have mentioned in the past approaching 40 skin care has become a much bigger…

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Fashion, Shopping, Style · October 26, 2018

Patterned Pants

  Photography by Melissa Breedlove Photography I have been making a conscious effort to wear more pants and feature separates on the blog.  I am always drawn to dresses so it has taken some work on my part to branch…

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Fashion, Style · October 22, 2018

Camo Athleisure and My Avocado Bag

The first fashion post I wrote was on athleisure outfits.  It was kind of the first post I had written that made me think, ok, maybe I can do this.  Before that post my blog was less than a hobby…

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Fashion, Mardi Gras, Style · January 15, 2018

Mardi Gras Ball Fashion

If you have never attended a Mardi Gras Ball you really are missing out.  They are exciting and fun and a true experience to see.  We have been to several over the years and they never disappoint from the entertainment…

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Fashion · January 3, 2018

Who What Wear – Olive Pants and Balloon Sleeve Sweater

Winter is finally reached the south.  This past weekend was freezing as was the beginning of this week.  With an early Mardi Gras this year it has me rethinking everything we will wear.  You just never know with Mardi Gras. …

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Fashion · January 1, 2018

2018 Pantone Color of the Year – Ultra Violet

Happy New Year!  This is our first post in 2018… Each year the Pantone Color Institute chooses a color of the year.  2018’s color is Ultra Violet (18-3838) which is a beautiful dusty purple that I think will look incredible…

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Fashion · December 18, 2017

All Black Leather and Lace

I have been so focused on Christmas that I really haven’t thought a lot about New Years Eve.  We haven’t celebrated at night since we took custody of Peyton almost 6 years ago but before we had kids we were…

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Fashion, Shopping, Sponsored · December 16, 2017

Lilly Pulitzer with Tights and Booties

A few months back I did a post about how Lilly Pulitzer had so many incredible options for fall.  They have been pigeon holed as a spring/summer/resort wear line and the truth is they are so much more.  I had…

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Christmas, Holiday, Shopping · December 6, 2017

My Extravagant Christmas List

Big Daddy and I still make Christmas lists for one another.  It’s one of my favorite parts of the Christmas season.  He usually starts asking me what is on my list in October so that he can start planning.  I…

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Holiday Dressing Guide · November 20, 2017

Fancy Kings – Holiday

We are in the home stretch to the Christmas holidays.  Thanksgiving is Thursday which means this weekend will officially start holiday parties.  Big Daddy and I love to get dressed up and although there aren’t a ton of reasons for…

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At Home, Holiday, Thanksgiving · November 15, 2017

Setting the perfect Thanksgiving Table

There is something warm and inviting about the Thanksgiving holiday.  I think it has something to do with the beautiful colors of autumn but Thanksgiving just makes me happy. I have always dreamed of hosting a Thanksgiving dinner outside in…

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Fashion · November 13, 2017

Blush and Olive

Blush and Olive is one of my favorite color combos.  I am not afraid to mix a pattern or a bold color but there are just some color matches that sound like the hallelujah chorus is being sung.  This is…

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Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
Why this outfit works. #fashion #style Why this outfit works. #fashion #style
Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Gi Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Give a man three beers and he will make TikTok’s with you in your living room. #marriage
23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. #anniver 23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. 
#anniversary #marriage #piscesarieslove
Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dres Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dressing theory is two fold. 

First, try things. You are going to be stuck if you always go with a comfortable formula. 

Second, if YOU think YOU look good then go with it. You don’t need someone else seal of approval.
Friday. Friday.
Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701 Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701
Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style is about trying new things and to be honest it’s about getting things wrong now and then. What do you think?  Are you pro color palette or pro trying anything?

P.S. peep @caleb.blaine in the background
Trends I’m here for? Chunky necklaces. #spring #t Trends I’m here for?  Chunky necklaces. #spring #trends #trending #goldenlily @shopgoldenlily
Breaking down my outfit of the day. Why I think it Breaking down my outfit of the day. Why I think it works and how I can replicate it.  What do you think?  Is it a win? #ootd #fashion #style

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