Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
Why this outfit works. #fashion #style Why this outfit works. #fashion #style
Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Gi Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Give a man three beers and he will make TikTok’s with you in your living room. #marriage
23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. #anniver 23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. 
#anniversary #marriage #piscesarieslove
Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dres Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dressing theory is two fold. 

First, try things. You are going to be stuck if you always go with a comfortable formula. 

Second, if YOU think YOU look good then go with it. You don’t need someone else seal of approval.
Friday. Friday.
Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701 Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701
Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style is about trying new things and to be honest it’s about getting things wrong now and then. What do you think?  Are you pro color palette or pro trying anything?

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Dressing Tips, Fashion, Mardi Gras, Plus, Style · January 28, 2020

Mardi Gras Balls – Buying Formals Online

I started this year with a new vision for my posts. I want to make shopping convenient and easy for women of any size so all of my posts will now be size inclusive. This means that in all of…

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Dressing Tips, Fashion, Style · December 3, 2019

Making the Most of Your Wardrobe {One Shirt, Eight Ways}

January is the calm. It is the time when we are recovering from the holidays, making plans for the new year and in New Orleans we are preparing for Mardi Gras. I have mixed emotions about January. It is usually…

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At Home, Fun, Gift Guide, Holiday, Kids, Life, Seasonal Guide · November 20, 2019

Holiday Gift Guide – Teens

{This post contains affiliate links.} I am trying to give y’all what you asked for an overwhelmingly you said, gift guide for teens. My hand to God I don’t know anything about teens so I started researching and asking other…

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Fashion, Plus, Style · July 23, 2019

6 Tips for Shopping the Clearance Rack

Shopping in the clearance section is one way to save money on your wardrobe. I am giving my best tips here.

Style · April 2, 2019

Here’s Why Black and White is Perfect for Spring.

Black and white is the perfect crisp and clean look for spring. It spans the seasons but will always keep you looking classy.

Flourish · January 29, 2019

Flourish with Tracy Kopfinger

If we can bloom where we are planted can we flourish more when we are poured into, celebrated, encouraged, empowered?

Style · January 22, 2019

National Polka Dot Day

Happy National Polka Dot Day! There is something about polka dots that just make me feel fancy and happy. Maybe it’s that it brings me back to being a kid, feeling excited about fashion and using my clothes to express…

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At Home, Christmas, Decorating, Entertaining, Food, Holiday, Home, Life, Seasonal Guide · December 21, 2018

Throwing the Perfect Christmas Brunch

I have always wanted to throw a Christmas Brunch.  My extended family prefers to have lunch or dinner so I am the odd man out.  Two years ago though Christmas fell on a Sunday and I was able to use…

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At Home, Christmas, Holiday, Life · November 28, 2018

My Top 10 Christmas Card Picks with Shutterfly

I love picking out our family Christmas Card each year.  The holidays are such a fun time for our family and I try to match our Christmas card to our home theme each year. I start thinking about what card…

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Holiday Dressing Guide, Style · November 22, 2018

Holiday Dressing Guide – 2018

I set this post up to publish around the time most of you would be finished Thanksgiving dinner and looking around Facebook for something to read. One of the best parts of the holidays are all of the events!  From…

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Decorating, Entertaining, Holiday, Home, Thanksgiving · November 16, 2018

Setting Your Thanksgiving Table

Thanksgiving is less than a week away and I am ready for family and food.  Thanksgiving feels easier to me than Christmas since there aren’t as many events leading up to it.  It makes me feel relaxed and calm. I…

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Fashion, LOFT, Style · November 13, 2018

LOVE LOFT – Denim and Velvet

{This post is sponsored by LOFT Lakeside.  All thoughts, opinions and ideas are mine.} Fall finally feels like it arrived.  Sort of.  It was cold then cool then hot then cold then hot again.  I thought by the time November…

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Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
Why this outfit works. #fashion #style Why this outfit works. #fashion #style
Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Gi Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Give a man three beers and he will make TikTok’s with you in your living room. #marriage
23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. #anniver 23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. 
#anniversary #marriage #piscesarieslove
Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dres Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dressing theory is two fold. 

First, try things. You are going to be stuck if you always go with a comfortable formula. 

Second, if YOU think YOU look good then go with it. You don’t need someone else seal of approval.
Friday. Friday.
Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701 Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701
Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style is about trying new things and to be honest it’s about getting things wrong now and then. What do you think?  Are you pro color palette or pro trying anything?

P.S. peep @caleb.blaine in the background
Trends I’m here for? Chunky necklaces. #spring #t Trends I’m here for?  Chunky necklaces. #spring #trends #trending #goldenlily @shopgoldenlily
Breaking down my outfit of the day. Why I think it Breaking down my outfit of the day. Why I think it works and how I can replicate it.  What do you think?  Is it a win? #ootd #fashion #style

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