Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
Why this outfit works. #fashion #style Why this outfit works. #fashion #style
Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Gi Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Give a man three beers and he will make TikTok’s with you in your living room. #marriage
23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. #anniver 23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. 
#anniversary #marriage #piscesarieslove
Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dres Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dressing theory is two fold. 

First, try things. You are going to be stuck if you always go with a comfortable formula. 

Second, if YOU think YOU look good then go with it. You don’t need someone else seal of approval.
Friday. Friday.
Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701 Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701
Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style is about trying new things and to be honest it’s about getting things wrong now and then. What do you think?  Are you pro color palette or pro trying anything?

P.S. peep @caleb.blaine in the background
Trends I’m here for? Chunky necklaces. #spring #t Trends I’m here for?  Chunky necklaces. #spring #trends #trending #goldenlily @shopgoldenlily
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    Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
    Why this outfit works. #fashion #style Why this outfit works. #fashion #style
    Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Gi Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Give a man three beers and he will make TikTok’s with you in your living room. #marriage
    23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. #anniver 23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. 
#anniversary #marriage #piscesarieslove
    Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dres Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dressing theory is two fold. 

First, try things. You are going to be stuck if you always go with a comfortable formula. 

Second, if YOU think YOU look good then go with it. You don’t need someone else seal of approval.
    Friday. Friday.
    Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701 Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701
    Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style is about trying new things and to be honest it’s about getting things wrong now and then. What do you think?  Are you pro color palette or pro trying anything?

P.S. peep @caleb.blaine in the background
    Trends I’m here for? Chunky necklaces. #spring #t Trends I’m here for?  Chunky necklaces. #spring #trends #trending #goldenlily @shopgoldenlily
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