This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with m This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with me.

We were at the pool and one of my boys came up and told me a kid had called me the fat mom. We all just sat there for a second, looking at each other. I asked him what he thought.

He said, “I told him to shut up. Most days you look like a princess.”

My boys were ready to defend me. They just knew it wasn’t a nice thing to say.

I struggled with how to respond. I want them to know words can hurt. I also want them to know they hold the only opinion that matters about their own bodies.

So I told them, “Mommy isn’t skinny. But that doesn’t matter. I love wearing a bathing suit and swimming with you, and I am never going to let someone else’s opinion stop me from doing that.”
If I had cried, or asked them if they thought I was fat, or left the pool, I would have taught them that someone else’s opinion had power over me.

That is not the lesson I want them to carry.

People need to see all bodies in swimsuits. When we hide, we send the message that our bodies don’t belong in the same spaces as everyone else’s. That is wrong.

Wear your swimsuit. Take up space. Show your kids that all bodies belong, including yours.

If I am fat, I am fat. That is part of who I am. It is not who I am.
I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I w I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I was on vacation.

Always looking for the shot. Always thinking about what I could post later. It started to take away from actually being there.

So I changed how I do it.
Before I go, I make a simple shot list. Not a schedule, just a few categories of content I know I want to come home with.

For this trip my list looked like:
-A water park post
-Favorite bites while we were there
-What I wore to the beach recap
-An aesthetic recap of -the whole trip
-Swimsuit pics for LTK
-A few extra images for carousels throughout the summer

For the water park, I knew exactly what I wanted before we even got there. It came out to about 8 images. I got them early, put my phone away, and just enjoyed the day with my family.

One trip. Content for the whole summer and I actually got to be there for it.

Save this before your next trip.  Follow for more digital strategy tips every Tuesday.  That’s what I’m here for.
👀 👀
Clocked out. Locked in. #summer #beach #beachin # Clocked out. Locked in.  #summer #beach #beachin #gulfshores
Eating out on vacation is probably my favorite thi Eating out on vacation is probably my favorite thing about taking a trip. This time at the beach we tried a few new places and some unique bites. Here is my list. 
1. @parlordoughnuts - French toast donut was my favorite bite all vacation. The donuts are huge and a dozen lasted us 3 days. 
2. @gulfshorescoffeeco - I was excited for this because they were so close to our condo. The coconut cold brew was my favorite and the cans made it so easy to take the the beach. Kids loved the dirty sodas. 
3. @delsicecreamob - we have ice cream every night on vacation. The red velvet and the iced box lemon at dels was amazing. 
4. @hightidedaiquirismimosas - a new to us place. Came straight off the beach for the most satisfying lunch. Pizza paninis and waffles on a stick. Obsessed. 

What is your favorite spot?
Figured it out. #healed Figured it out. #healed
All inclusive. Allegedly. #kingfamilyvacay #summer All inclusive. Allegedly. #kingfamilyvacay #summerofyes
Every time Trial Reels come up in conversation wit Every time Trial Reels come up in conversation with business owners, creators, and brands I notice the same thing.

Nobody is using them.

Instagram rolled this out quietly at the end of 2024 and most people either don’t know they exist or aren’t sure what to do with them. So let’s fix that.

Trial Reels are one of the only ways Instagram lets you get your content in front of people who don’t follow you yet. They show your reels to non followers through the explore page and reels feed. That is new eyes, new followers, and new potential clients — without paid ads.

Here is what you need to know:

-Trial Reels are only available to professional accounts and some creator accounts
-They gain traction for 24 hours — after that views stop
-You can run a trial at the same time you post to your feed
-They are not just for new content, repurpose your best performing reels

I have used them consistently and have seen my follower count grow because of it. The content that performs best is funny, engaging, or tied to trending audio. Stay away from talking head content unless it stops someone in the first second.

This is a feature worth adding to your strategy right now.

Save this and post your first Trial Reel this week.
Follow me for more digital strategy tips every Tuesday.

That is what I am here for.
June 1st the beginning of Pride month and I want y June 1st the beginning of Pride month and I want you to remember that it’s important because everyone deserves a place and to be their true selves without fear of abandonment or harm. #pride
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Capsule Wardrobe, Fashion, Shopping, Style · January 1, 2022

Capsule Wardrobes: How To Get Started

A question I get asked frequently on the blog is how to build capsule wardrobes and do I utilize one. I think if you have been around here for a while you know that minimalism is not really my cup of tea.

Although I may not use a capsule in my day to day life I do know the basis of creating a useable wardrobe that will work for your stage of life. Last year I started planning this series for all of you. Capsule Wardrobes are simple but there can be a lot of components to making them work for you. I want to cover all of this over the next year.

Some of the posts I have planned are:

  • Developing a color palette for your wardrobe
  • Creating a seasonal capsule wardrobe
  • How to effectively shop sales while building a capsule wardrobe
  • Using your capsule wardrobe when packing
  • How to add trends into your capsule
  • Clothing care

Today I want to start at the beginning. What is a Capsule? Where you can start in your own closet? How to start planning?

So What is in Capsule Wardrobes…

Essentially a capsule wardrobe consists of outfit pieces that you can wear in multiple outfits.  Example; a white shirt that can be worn with jeans will also be worn with a skirt and that skirt can work with a bow top and blazer for work.  Each piece is important and needs to be curated to have multiple jobs. Again, this isn’t hard but it does require planning.

You should attempt to be minimal in your selections this way you are getting the most use out of your capsule. Each item should have a minimum of three jobs.

Capsule Wardrobe Example: Top, jeans and sneakers
Capsule Wardrobe Example: Top, Jacket, Skirt and heels

In the end you will have less items but your wardrobe goes much further. You will be able to mix and match your pieces more effectively.  This will also allow you to buy higher end items because you will not be purchasing as much.

The Quality over Quantity approach.

Planning

Planning is pretty simple. Fill out this capsule profile before you do anything else.

  • What are the target amount of outfits you want to be able to create with your capsule?
  • What are the target number of items you need to achieve your target outfit amount?
  • The color palette for your capsule?
  • Is this a seasonal capsule or a full wardrobe?
  • What is the weather like where you live?
  • What stage of life are you in? Working, staying home, young kids, older kids?
  • If you are working what is your job or office environment like?
  • Lastly, are you social and going out a lot or attending events or you more of a home body?

Answering all of these questions will help you decide how many of each item you need.

Starting in Your Closet

Now that we have planned how we want to build our capsule wardrobes we need to start in our own closet. I would start purging items using these six categories:

  • Basics / Essentials: tops, bottoms, dresses, jumpsuits
  • Collaborative Items: Blazers, Cardigans, Belts, Hats
  • Occasion: Coats, special occasion items
  • Sell: Items that have been purchased in the last 18 months or are classic pieces that will still be in style
  • Donate: Items that are out of style
  • Throw Out: Anything that is damaged, stained, pilled or is not in good condition.

** I am working on a bigger post that will come out this month about how to purge your closet.**

Once you have done your initial purge I want you to go back to those items and use the KonMari Approach. Does this item bring you joy (or does it make you feel good when you wear it)? If the answer is no add it to the Sell or Donate pile and move on.

Just a note. I used sell or donate because at this point anything that needs to be thrown out should already be gone. Please do not keep items that should be in the thrown out category.

Building your Capsule

Let’s start with the elements of a capsule and define some terms you will hear:

  • Tops: Tees, tanks, sweaters, button downs
  • Bottoms: Shorts, jeans, pants, leggings, skirts
  • One and Done: Dresses and jumpsuits
  • Collaborative Items: Cardigans, blazers, jackets
  • Accessories: Coats, bags, belts, hats and shoes

Since you know how many outfits you want to make we can break that down into how many items you need in each category.

Putting Things Into Action

Now that we have a plan and we have purged our closet let’s look at what a capsule would look like…

This capsule is based off of me, Tiffany, a 41 year old women with three kids and a husband who works part time from home. You can see how I filled out my capsule profile below…

  • What are the target amount of outfits you want to be able to create with your capsule? 100
  • What are the target number of items you need to achieve your target outfit amount? 29
  • What is your color palette for your capsule? white, black, pink
  • Is this a seasonal capsule or a full wardrobe? Seasonal for spring and summer
  • What is the weather like where you live? Warm and Rainy
  • What stage of life are you in? Working, staying home, young kids, older kids? Working from home, kids but no longer carrying any of them.
  • If you are working what is your job or office environment like? My work environment is casual with the occasional need for a nicer dress for a meeting or event.
  • Lastly, are you social and going out a lot or attending events or you more of a home body? Social. I spend a good amount of time out on the weekends.

Using these requirements this would be my target wardrobe:

Capsule Wardrobe How to Get Started: Tanks
Capsule Wardrobe How to Get Started: Tanks
Capsule Wardrobe How to Get Started: Tanks
Capsule Wardrobe How to Get Started: Shorts
Capsule Wardrobe How to Get Started: Denim
Capsule Wardrobe How to Get Started: Pants
Capsule Wardrobe How to Get Started: Skirts
Capsule Wardrobe How to Get Started: Dresses
Capsule Wardrobe How to Get Started: Dresses

Final Thoughts

In this wardrobe I did not include any collaborative items because it is spring/summer so no need for coats and blazers but I also am reusing an old post and I didn’t shoot any hats or bags when I did this.

The take away I want you to have from this is how the colors work together. You can easily make outfits work because there is an overall color flow. There are always going to be a few exceptions like dresses that can be a bolder pattern or different color scheme.

XO,

Tiffany

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This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with m This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with me.

We were at the pool and one of my boys came up and told me a kid had called me the fat mom. We all just sat there for a second, looking at each other. I asked him what he thought.

He said, “I told him to shut up. Most days you look like a princess.”

My boys were ready to defend me. They just knew it wasn’t a nice thing to say.

I struggled with how to respond. I want them to know words can hurt. I also want them to know they hold the only opinion that matters about their own bodies.

So I told them, “Mommy isn’t skinny. But that doesn’t matter. I love wearing a bathing suit and swimming with you, and I am never going to let someone else’s opinion stop me from doing that.”
If I had cried, or asked them if they thought I was fat, or left the pool, I would have taught them that someone else’s opinion had power over me.

That is not the lesson I want them to carry.

People need to see all bodies in swimsuits. When we hide, we send the message that our bodies don’t belong in the same spaces as everyone else’s. That is wrong.

Wear your swimsuit. Take up space. Show your kids that all bodies belong, including yours.

If I am fat, I am fat. That is part of who I am. It is not who I am.
I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I w I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I was on vacation.

Always looking for the shot. Always thinking about what I could post later. It started to take away from actually being there.

So I changed how I do it.
Before I go, I make a simple shot list. Not a schedule, just a few categories of content I know I want to come home with.

For this trip my list looked like:
-A water park post
-Favorite bites while we were there
-What I wore to the beach recap
-An aesthetic recap of -the whole trip
-Swimsuit pics for LTK
-A few extra images for carousels throughout the summer

For the water park, I knew exactly what I wanted before we even got there. It came out to about 8 images. I got them early, put my phone away, and just enjoyed the day with my family.

One trip. Content for the whole summer and I actually got to be there for it.

Save this before your next trip.  Follow for more digital strategy tips every Tuesday.  That’s what I’m here for.
👀 👀
Clocked out. Locked in. #summer #beach #beachin # Clocked out. Locked in.  #summer #beach #beachin #gulfshores
Eating out on vacation is probably my favorite thi Eating out on vacation is probably my favorite thing about taking a trip. This time at the beach we tried a few new places and some unique bites. Here is my list. 
1. @parlordoughnuts - French toast donut was my favorite bite all vacation. The donuts are huge and a dozen lasted us 3 days. 
2. @gulfshorescoffeeco - I was excited for this because they were so close to our condo. The coconut cold brew was my favorite and the cans made it so easy to take the the beach. Kids loved the dirty sodas. 
3. @delsicecreamob - we have ice cream every night on vacation. The red velvet and the iced box lemon at dels was amazing. 
4. @hightidedaiquirismimosas - a new to us place. Came straight off the beach for the most satisfying lunch. Pizza paninis and waffles on a stick. Obsessed. 

What is your favorite spot?
Figured it out. #healed Figured it out. #healed
All inclusive. Allegedly. #kingfamilyvacay #summer All inclusive. Allegedly. #kingfamilyvacay #summerofyes
Every time Trial Reels come up in conversation wit Every time Trial Reels come up in conversation with business owners, creators, and brands I notice the same thing.

Nobody is using them.

Instagram rolled this out quietly at the end of 2024 and most people either don’t know they exist or aren’t sure what to do with them. So let’s fix that.

Trial Reels are one of the only ways Instagram lets you get your content in front of people who don’t follow you yet. They show your reels to non followers through the explore page and reels feed. That is new eyes, new followers, and new potential clients — without paid ads.

Here is what you need to know:

-Trial Reels are only available to professional accounts and some creator accounts
-They gain traction for 24 hours — after that views stop
-You can run a trial at the same time you post to your feed
-They are not just for new content, repurpose your best performing reels

I have used them consistently and have seen my follower count grow because of it. The content that performs best is funny, engaging, or tied to trending audio. Stay away from talking head content unless it stops someone in the first second.

This is a feature worth adding to your strategy right now.

Save this and post your first Trial Reel this week.
Follow me for more digital strategy tips every Tuesday.

That is what I am here for.
June 1st the beginning of Pride month and I want y June 1st the beginning of Pride month and I want you to remember that it’s important because everyone deserves a place and to be their true selves without fear of abandonment or harm. #pride
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