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You are not shadow banned. Your content is not bei You are not shadow banned. Your content is not being hidden. Most of the time, it simply is not resonating with your audience anymore, especially if you are using the app correctly, which I will explain at the end.

People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
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At Home, Decorating, Entertaining, Food, Holiday, Home, Life, Projects · April 29, 2020

Mother’s Day at Home

Ideas for Mother's Day at Home

In Louisiana we got the official word on Monday that we will be under a stay home order until May 15th. This means that once again we will be celebrating a holiday at home. Over the last few months we have seen parents take on new roles as educators, coaches and more. They are doing all of the jobs and Mother’s Day and Father’s Day would be a nice time to recognize that.

Should we celebrate mothers everyday? Sure. Is it nice to pick one day to celebrate them? Absolutely! Mothers are amazing and recognizing them for all that they do is important.

I am working to provide as many local resources as I can to support my community during this time. I realize all my followers are not from the same area though so I made sure that each of the following items were available for purchase online.

Simple Things

Justin is always great about Mother’s Day. I love that he always thinks of a gift and card but the small things he does are the ones that mean the most to me. If you are looking for simple ways to

  • Breakfast in bed
  • Extra morning time to sleep or take a bath or lounge around
  • Homemade cards
  • Help with household tasks
  • Afternoon nap
  • Taking the kids out of the house for an hour

The list of ideas you could come up with to support your spouse while not spending any money is endless.

Gift Guide

Over the last few weeks so many small retailers have worked tirelessly to get their businesses online. Many are offering free delivery or curbside pick up. This guide is a selection of items from some of my favorite small retailers.

We Five Kings Mother's Day Gift Guide
We Five Kings Mother's Day Gift Guide
  1. The Flower Girl – Handcrafted Floral Design
  2. Mimosa Handcrafted – Petite Pelican Cuff Bracelet
  3. Stella Dallas – Lack of Colors Rancher Hat
  4. Swoon NOLA – Succulent Bath Bomb
  5. Niche Modern Home – Alabaster Glass Bowl
  6. BURU – White Beaded Headband
  7. Golden Lily – Nude Sunnies
  8. The Villa Mandeville – Virtue Double Wicker Disc Earrings
  9. Kismet Cosmetics – Perky Spray
  10. Paisley Boutique – Palm Avenue Clutch
  11. Chaleureux – Tassle Throw Blanket
  12. The Villa Mandeville – Kathleen Barclay Tank in Lavender
  13. Endless Summer – Self Tanning Mousse // Tanning Mit
  14. Stella Dallas – Flower Child Tee
  15. Dreve – Beach Tote with Floppy Hat
  16. Golden Lily – Butterfly Earrings
  17. Charleston Candle Company – Sweet Tea Candle
  18. Paisley Boutique – Isle Dress
  19. BURU – Crochet Knit Skirt in Ivory
  20. Kay-la Handbags
  21. About Face – Mother’s Day Gift Basket
  22. Bra Genie – Fantasie Swim Palm Valley Kaftan
  23. JBS Hair – Cut and Color Gift Card
  24. Elektra Cosmetics – Brilliant Blush Lip Kit
  25. Fleurty Girl – Red Crawfish Door Hanger
  26. Sparkle City – Sequin Gameday Shirts
  27. Hazel Lane – Stripe Midi Drop Dress
  28. Virtue Jewelry – Turquoise Box Loop Necklace
  29. Ashley Seivert Beauty – Velvet Air Brushes Set
  30. The Bra Genie – Miracle Suit
  31. Fleurty Girl – Yellow Cottage Pillow
  32. About Face – Glo Essentials Kit
  33. Hazel Lane – Ivory Flowy V-Neck Top
  34. Ashley Seivert Beauty – Perfume

Craft Ideas

There aren’t any gifts coming home from school this year for Mother’s Day and if you aren’t a project person that could seem like a lot of work. These are three easy projects that you can complete in an afternoon.

https://www.hellowonderful.co/post/DIY-RAINBOW-PAPER-HEART-POM-POM-WREATH/?cuid=b7a7e37b22c93d5c2c1796af1c3c236d
I Love You Because Mothers Day Craft Flowers
Painted Rock Photo Holder Craft for Kids

Brunch Ideas

We have two traditions in our family for Mother’s Day. My mom and I go to the Windsor Court for High Tea on Saturday and on Sunday we go to brunch as a family. This year the restaurants won’t be open for table service but many of them will still be offering take out.

Locally…

The English Tea Room in Covington has been doing tea service to go if you are looking for something fancy. Hambone has been offering their weekly brunch menu to go on weekends. Nan’s Cafe has their full menu and is also doing specials for holidays. In Covington, Ox Lot is doing daily take out and even giving us some of our old SMOKE favorites from their menu. LOLA, also in downtown Covington, is doing daily specials that they are updating on their Facebook page. If you are looking for something a little more casual both locations of STICKS have been doing family meals and weekend specials like their meat pies and wings. Snacx is also creating beautiful boards for your family.

Online Resources…

If you aren’t local to the Northshore or if you are looking to make your own brunch these are some great resources.

https://wefivekings.blog/2020/03/27/boards-boards-boards/
Brunch and Bubbly
5 Tips for Creating the Perfect Bagel Bar
https://www.jocooks.com/roundups/21-mothers-day-brunch-recipe-ideas-your-mom-would-love/
Pancake Board
30 Delicious Sweet Pancake Toppings Ideas

Cocktails

No Mother’s Day brunch would be complete without a mimosa or other brunch cocktail. I got Haley Hernandez from The Perfect Pour to give me two simple and delicious cocktails for Mother’s Day.

Haley Hernandez with The Perfect Pour Mobile Bar

Bloody Mary

The FRESHEST Bloody Mary you’ll ever make!!

This is a big-batch recipe that will serve 12 and is to be made a day or two in advance!  It allows the flavors to really merge together!  For a smaller batch, reduce each ingredient by half! 

  • 3 stalks celery, cut into 2-inch pieces 
  • 6 cups tomato juice 
  • 1/4 cup fresh lemon juice (from 2 to 3 lemons) 
  • 3 tablespoons horseradish 
  • 2 tablespoons Worcestershire sauce 
  • 1 teaspoon celery salt 
  • 1 to 2 teaspoons hot sauce, plus more for individual serving 
  • Freshly ground pepper 
  • Olives, Spicy Beans/Asparagus, Pickled Okra, Pickled Pearl Onions, Bacon, lemon & lime slices or whatever you’d like for garnish! (optional) 
  • Vodka, chilled 

Pulse celery in a food processor until finely chopped. Add 2 cups tomato juice and puree until smooth. Transfer to a pitcher and stir in remaining 4 cups tomato juice, lemon juice, horseradish, Worcestershire, celery salt, hot sauce, and pepper. Cover and refrigerate at least 12 hours and up to 2 days.

Stir Bloody Mary mix well just before serving. Serve over ice as is, or with vodka (1.5-2oz per serving), hot sauce, pepper, and garnishes. Enjoy! 

Rossini

This is a twist on the classic Bellini!  Instead of peach, you’ll be using purée strawberry!  

This purée can also be made in advance!

  • 6 pints fresh strawberries
  • Prosecco

Wash, de-stem and freeze strawberries.  (Pre purchased frozen strawberries work just as well!). Add to blender and puree until smooth. Fill a champagne flute 1/4 of the way with fruit purée.  Top with cold Prosecco! 

Check out The Perfect Pour on Instagram here.

The Perfect Pour Mobile Bar

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If it’s going to be 80 degrees for Christmas I’m a If it’s going to be 80 degrees for Christmas I’m asking Santa for a spray tan gift card in my stocking.
As my boys have gotten older there is almost alway As my boys have gotten older there is almost always a friend eating dinner at my house or spending the night. The weekends are reserved for a driveway full of bikes and basketball. This year, in my haste to make my @shutterfly card I accidentally added a picture with one of my bonus kids in it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #themorethemerrier
You are not shadow banned. Your content is not bei You are not shadow banned. Your content is not being hidden. Most of the time, it simply is not resonating with your audience anymore, especially if you are using the app correctly, which I will explain at the end.

People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
Candy cane bow tutorial!! #chrismas #christmasbaki Candy cane bow tutorial!! #chrismas #christmasbaking #christmascake #christmastreat #holiday #holidaytreats #coquettechristmas #twee #coquetteholiday
Coffee with my favorite collaborator… Coffee with my favorite collaborator…
Shop local gift guide @shopstelladallas!! Shop local gift guide @shopstelladallas!!
Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Par Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Party in a whole new direction and it ended up being one of my favorite versions yet. I invited some of my closest friends to Kismet Cosmetics, decorated gingerbread houses, and made our own lip gloss and face glitter. It was such a fun way to reconnect with my friends during the busiest time of year. The full recap is on the blog now. Link in bio.
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