Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
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Fashion · January 23, 2018

Prima Donnas Ball

This is the first time I have participated in a Mardi Gras Krewe.  I have been able to ride in a few parades over the years but always as a chaperone and I wasn’t an actual member of the Krewe.  When I was asked by my friend, Emily, if I wanted her to nominate me for Prima Donnas I was excited!  Being an actual part of Mardi Gras and not just attending is going to be a real treat.

If you aren’t familiar there are a million ways to participate in Mardi Gras.  Everything from riding on the float to marching groups and anything in between.  The Prima Donnas, Guardians of Haute Couture, are a promenade Krewe.  They meet at Saks on the Friday before Mardi Gras and make their way to Court of Two Sisters for Brunch and then promenade down Bourbon Street.  It’s like a super fancy ladies who lunch day.

Our Krewe has one overall theme and then the 13 groups are given their own theme.  This is how we decorate our corsets.  Each lady is responsible for her entire costume and it has to be made from Mardi Gras beads and you have to follow your theme.  Our Royals make each group a hat so every lady in the group will have the same one.  Other than that you are allowed to be as creative as possible.  I am dying to show you what I created but we have to keep it a secret until promenade day.

This past weekend was our ball which was more casual than some of the Mardi Gras krewes.  Mardi Gras balls are a time to honor your Krewe royalty and preset your Grand Marshalls and any other special members you have parading that year.  Our ball was much more of a social than a presentation but it was so much fun.  All of the ladies in my Krewe are what I like to call Extra.

I have to add that they had a champagne cake (above on the left).  To say it was perfection is under selling how good it was.  Think rum cake with a champagne twist.

I knew the ball was going to be more casual so I didn’t need a gown.  I did want to wear something a little funky but I couldn’t find what I wanted.  I had bought a sequin dress and also a pink jumpsuit but they just weren’t what I wanted.  The weekend before the ball I went to Mackenzie and Me in Covington and found this amazing little faux leather dress.  It fit like a glove and the exposed zipper and drop waist made it fun.

Plus she had these amazing rose gold sandals that I am in love with.  Seriously I danced all night and never took them off.

I went all in with the black adding the black and silver wig and the black lace gloves.  It was perfection and I couldn’t have been happier.

Kayla Morgan from Kay-la Handbags made me this gorgeous clutch to bring with me.  I called her literally the night before and she designed this and painted it that night.  I can’t wait to see the bag she does for me for Prima Donnas Promenade day.

Also, Johanna Frigola did my makeup and it was AMAZING!  We have big plans for Prima Donnas Day!

We had a great time but all it did was make me even more ready for Mardi Gras.  Parades start this weekend and we cannot wait!  Hail Prima Donnas.

XO,

Tippy

 

In: Fashion · Tagged: carnival, hail prima donnas, johnanna frigola, kay-la handbags, Mackenzie and Me, mandeville blogger, mardi gras, mardi gras krewe, new orleans, new orleans blogger, northshore blogger, prima donnas, promenade, promenade krewe

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Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
Why this outfit works. #fashion #style Why this outfit works. #fashion #style
Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Gi Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Give a man three beers and he will make TikTok’s with you in your living room. #marriage
23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. #anniver 23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. 
#anniversary #marriage #piscesarieslove
Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dres Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dressing theory is two fold. 

First, try things. You are going to be stuck if you always go with a comfortable formula. 

Second, if YOU think YOU look good then go with it. You don’t need someone else seal of approval.
Friday. Friday.
Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701 Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701
Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style is about trying new things and to be honest it’s about getting things wrong now and then. What do you think?  Are you pro color palette or pro trying anything?

P.S. peep @caleb.blaine in the background
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