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People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
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Fashion, Shopping, Sponsored · December 16, 2017

Lilly Pulitzer with Tights and Booties

A few months back I did a post about how Lilly Pulitzer had so many incredible options for fall.  They have been pigeon holed as a spring/summer/resort wear line and the truth is they are so much more.  I had a fitting with the ladies at Palm Village Mandeville – A Lilly Pulitzer Store on Wednesday morning.  My original post idea was to show my readers all the options they had for New Years Eve.  When I got to the store and started pulling looks I changed my focus because there were so many amazing options to put with tights and boots.

I don’t think that many people would think that Lilly Pulitzer would be the place to find a dress that would work with tights and boots but my goal in this blog is to help you think outside of the norm so that you can make outfits that are unique and fun.  I found pieces that would work for Christmas, New Years and well into the winter which will maximize your ability to wear these pieces outside of a fancy event.

I was wearing black tights and leopard booties when I went to the fitting so after I decided to forego my original New Years Eve post I pulled items that would work with my shoes.  However most of the dresses they have in their winter collection would work with a low profile bootie and a nice thick opaque tight.  Low profile booties tend to have a dressier look so they would continue that dressy look with the dresses and outfits I chose.

Here are my five picks…

I just did a post a few weeks ago about wearing shorts in winter with leggings.  This was the perfect dressier option.  Lilly has a lot of shorts metallic shorts for winter.  They would be the perfect addition to your wardrobe if you are getting away to a a sunny locale in these cold months but if you aren’t this is the way to wear them in the winter.  Also, these gold short are the perfect thing to add to your Mardi Gras wardrobe.  I mean we never know what the weather is going to be like for Mardi Gras so you could end up wearing them with a tank or fleece lined tights and a sweater.  Either way it would look perfect.

 

This dress is gorgeous but even more fun when you are walking or dancing because the fringe has this beautiful flow to it.  If you are attending a non-formal ball for Mardi Gras this would be perfect.  I’m looking at you Prima Donnas.  Even though this dress has a pattern in the fabric and the fringe you can still mix it with another pattern.  I liked having the plain tights to break it up a little from the dress to the shoe.

 

I know that the color of the year for 2017 was greenery but we all can agree that the people chose rose gold.  It’s literally everywhere especially in holiday fashion.  This dress was so pretty in person because the jacquard pattern was metallic and had a great contrast to the lighter blush color of the dress.  It was a little bit of everything from textured fabric to metallic to cold shoulder to ruffles.  I wanted to call it the all in one dress.

 

Again another perfect dress for a low key Mardi Gras ball or party or even if you want to be a little fancy for a parade.  Such a beautiful shade of plum mixed with the metallic of the gold texture.  I think this would look amazing with a black tight to a black boot for a more monochromatic look on the bottom.  Put this with a small necklace and a big statement earring and you have an event dress to carry you through to March.

 

Out of the five dresses I tried on this was the most form fitting and most comfortable of all of them.  It was lined with the softest jersey slip I have every felt and it skimmed my body perfectly.  In the light there is a little iridescent shine to the kit which made it look like a upscale sweater dress.  This dress is also the most versatile as it would work with a flat, heel, wedge, bootie or OTK boot.  I also think this would be an excellent holiday to Mardi Gras purchase.

 

Early Mardi Gras in 2018 means we can look for holiday pieces that will transition to the carnival season.  Parties, Parades, meetings with the Krewe queens and such will soon be here and we need to bring on the fancy.  I think any of these looks would fit that bill.

Also, in exciting news we will be partnering with Palm Village Mandeville in 2018 and bringing you content and fittings from their store monthly.  When you visit the store or are calling in to purchase items please mention that you heard about them from my blog.

XO,

Tippy

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Merry Merry. Merry Merry.
Who is panic wrapping??? Who is panic wrapping???
If it’s going to be 80 degrees for Christmas I’m a If it’s going to be 80 degrees for Christmas I’m asking Santa for a spray tan gift card in my stocking.
As my boys have gotten older there is almost alway As my boys have gotten older there is almost always a friend eating dinner at my house or spending the night. The weekends are reserved for a driveway full of bikes and basketball. This year, in my haste to make my @shutterfly card I accidentally added a picture with one of my bonus kids in it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #themorethemerrier
You are not shadow banned. Your content is not bei You are not shadow banned. Your content is not being hidden. Most of the time, it simply is not resonating with your audience anymore, especially if you are using the app correctly, which I will explain at the end.

People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
Candy cane bow tutorial!! #chrismas #christmasbaki Candy cane bow tutorial!! #chrismas #christmasbaking #christmascake #christmastreat #holiday #holidaytreats #coquettechristmas #twee #coquetteholiday
Coffee with my favorite collaborator… Coffee with my favorite collaborator…
Shop local gift guide @shopstelladallas!! Shop local gift guide @shopstelladallas!!
Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Par Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Party in a whole new direction and it ended up being one of my favorite versions yet. I invited some of my closest friends to Kismet Cosmetics, decorated gingerbread houses, and made our own lip gloss and face glitter. It was such a fun way to reconnect with my friends during the busiest time of year. The full recap is on the blog now. Link in bio.
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