A few years ago I heard a longtime social media in A few years ago I heard a longtime social media influencer ask “does anyone even blog anymore?”

Yes. I do. Here is why.

When I first started my Instagram a mentor told me something that has stuck with me ever since. She said I needed a website to back it up. Her thought process was simple — you don’t own anything on Instagram, Facebook, or TikTok. You don’t control the platform. If Instagram shuts down tomorrow everything you built there is gone.

Your website is different. As long as you pay your domain, you own it. Nobody can take that from you.

Having a website has also changed the way I work with brands. I can walk into a collaboration with my website numbers alongside my social media numbers. Better than that, I can show a brand clicks on a post that are still generating traffic years after the collab ended. SEO works long after a social media post disappears from a feed. That is something Instagram alone can not give you.

You do not have to launch a full blog to get started. Start with a landing page. Your name, what you do, how to work with you. That is enough. Let it grow from there.
My website has grown with my brand over the years. I have added pages for podcasts, projects, and ecommerce as I needed them. It does not have to be everything on day one.

If you do not have a website yet, start by securing your domain. Even if you are not ready to build, own your URL.
Save this and take one step toward your website this week.

Follow for more digital strategy tips every Tuesday (o know today is Wednesday my content is off this week)

That is what I am here for.
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GNO in the GNO. Dress @theaudarling Hair: @alexi GNO in the GNO. 
Dress @theaudarling 
Hair: @alexisb_grayandgrahamsalon 
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Tan: @spraytansbyevan
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You can get the party girl out of the club but you You can get the party girl out of the club but you cannot get the club out of the party girl.
This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with m This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with me.

We were at the pool and one of my boys came up and told me a kid had called me the fat mom. We all just sat there for a second, looking at each other. I asked him what he thought.

He said, “I told him to shut up. Most days you look like a princess.”

My boys were ready to defend me. They just knew it wasn’t a nice thing to say.

I struggled with how to respond. I want them to know words can hurt. I also want them to know they hold the only opinion that matters about their own bodies.

So I told them, “Mommy isn’t skinny. But that doesn’t matter. I love wearing a bathing suit and swimming with you, and I am never going to let someone else’s opinion stop me from doing that.”
If I had cried, or asked them if they thought I was fat, or left the pool, I would have taught them that someone else’s opinion had power over me.

That is not the lesson I want them to carry.

People need to see all bodies in swimsuits. When we hide, we send the message that our bodies don’t belong in the same spaces as everyone else’s. That is wrong.

Wear your swimsuit. Take up space. Show your kids that all bodies belong, including yours.

If I am fat, I am fat. That is part of who I am. It is not who I am.
I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I w I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I was on vacation.

Always looking for the shot. Always thinking about what I could post later. It started to take away from actually being there.

So I changed how I do it.
Before I go, I make a simple shot list. Not a schedule, just a few categories of content I know I want to come home with.

For this trip my list looked like:
-A water park post
-Favorite bites while we were there
-What I wore to the beach recap
-An aesthetic recap of -the whole trip
-Swimsuit pics for LTK
-A few extra images for carousels throughout the summer

For the water park, I knew exactly what I wanted before we even got there. It came out to about 8 images. I got them early, put my phone away, and just enjoyed the day with my family.

One trip. Content for the whole summer and I actually got to be there for it.

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Christmas, Gift Guide, Life · November 2, 2021

Let’s Talk About Shipping

If you have been anywhere lately you know that the supply chain is a huge issue. In even worse news it is not getting any better anytime soon. Everyone from big box vendors to smaller local businesses are feeling it and it isn’t going to get any better anytime soon. So what does this mean for you when it comes to your holiday shopping. I am going to tell you.

I have seen a lot of posts lately saying things like, “if the supply chain is going to ruin your Christmas you need to get your priorities straight.” and while I get the sentiment this issue spas far past Christmas gifts alone. There are many things that go into making a Christmas special like gatherings and parties and fun exchanges with friends. The issues with getting supplies is going to be a lot more than just the gifts you wanted to give. You can already see in effects in Halloween that shelves are empty, businesses like Target are packing up specialty sections before the event has even passed.

So how do we manage this season without having our sanity blow up? I have a few ideas.

Shop Local

This is always going to be my first suggestion. We have so many wonderful, local business who are run by men and women who live in your community and pay taxes that go to your local police department and school. Please always think first of the places that you can shop local. So many of your local retailers have been watching this supply issue happen and they have been planning for it. They are going to be the retailers who bail you out this holiday.

Plan Early

This one one should really go without saying. Plan early. Each and every year there is this flurry of chaos before he holiday of people needing last minute items. Christmas should be a time of relaxation and enjoyment anyway so knock out your shopping and errands early and sit back and enjoy.

Check with your retailers on when the deadline on their ship dates will be. Most retailers have moved up ship dates drastically. I saw one recently that was ending taking custom orders at the end of October. You need to know how much time you have to get the things you need especially if they are going to be an in demand item.

Non Traditional Gifts

We often ask our parents for non toy gifts for the kids. They gifted us with a Louisiana Children’s Museum membership one year and this year my mom is getting my kids safari adventures at the Audubon Zoo. They get a lot of things to open at Christmas so having a few experience based gifts is always nice. You can find my list here.

What can you make at home

Homemade gifts can be the best for sometimes. My mom loves a good project from one of the kids. But think past that… baked goods for your neighbors, home cooked meals for friends, a cook book of your favorite southern recipes for a co-worker who isn’t from here. There are a lot of easy things you could do at home without having to shop.

Being able to change your expectations mid stream the key to enjoying life in my opinion. Like anything the last few years has taught us is that we need to be ready, and willing, to change our expectations quickly and move to a new idea. I am hoping everyone has a wonderful holiday season.

XO,

Tiffany

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A few years ago I heard a longtime social media in A few years ago I heard a longtime social media influencer ask “does anyone even blog anymore?”

Yes. I do. Here is why.

When I first started my Instagram a mentor told me something that has stuck with me ever since. She said I needed a website to back it up. Her thought process was simple — you don’t own anything on Instagram, Facebook, or TikTok. You don’t control the platform. If Instagram shuts down tomorrow everything you built there is gone.

Your website is different. As long as you pay your domain, you own it. Nobody can take that from you.

Having a website has also changed the way I work with brands. I can walk into a collaboration with my website numbers alongside my social media numbers. Better than that, I can show a brand clicks on a post that are still generating traffic years after the collab ended. SEO works long after a social media post disappears from a feed. That is something Instagram alone can not give you.

You do not have to launch a full blog to get started. Start with a landing page. Your name, what you do, how to work with you. That is enough. Let it grow from there.
My website has grown with my brand over the years. I have added pages for podcasts, projects, and ecommerce as I needed them. It does not have to be everything on day one.

If you do not have a website yet, start by securing your domain. Even if you are not ready to build, own your URL.
Save this and take one step toward your website this week.

Follow for more digital strategy tips every Tuesday (o know today is Wednesday my content is off this week)

That is what I am here for.
On the second floor of @armoireboutique is a sweet On the second floor of @armoireboutique is a sweet new spot @modernvintagearmoire!  This is the most perfectly curated vintage collection with a wide range of price points and sizes. By appointment only send them a DM and make an appointment to stop in. #vintage #vintagestyle #vintageclothing
GNO in the GNO. Dress @theaudarling Hair: @alexi GNO in the GNO. 
Dress @theaudarling 
Hair: @alexisb_grayandgrahamsalon 
Makeup: @brittanyspreen.hmua 
Tan: @spraytansbyevan
HFD HFD
You can get the party girl out of the club but you You can get the party girl out of the club but you cannot get the club out of the party girl.
This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with m This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with me.

We were at the pool and one of my boys came up and told me a kid had called me the fat mom. We all just sat there for a second, looking at each other. I asked him what he thought.

He said, “I told him to shut up. Most days you look like a princess.”

My boys were ready to defend me. They just knew it wasn’t a nice thing to say.

I struggled with how to respond. I want them to know words can hurt. I also want them to know they hold the only opinion that matters about their own bodies.

So I told them, “Mommy isn’t skinny. But that doesn’t matter. I love wearing a bathing suit and swimming with you, and I am never going to let someone else’s opinion stop me from doing that.”
If I had cried, or asked them if they thought I was fat, or left the pool, I would have taught them that someone else’s opinion had power over me.

That is not the lesson I want them to carry.

People need to see all bodies in swimsuits. When we hide, we send the message that our bodies don’t belong in the same spaces as everyone else’s. That is wrong.

Wear your swimsuit. Take up space. Show your kids that all bodies belong, including yours.

If I am fat, I am fat. That is part of who I am. It is not who I am.
I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I w I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I was on vacation.

Always looking for the shot. Always thinking about what I could post later. It started to take away from actually being there.

So I changed how I do it.
Before I go, I make a simple shot list. Not a schedule, just a few categories of content I know I want to come home with.

For this trip my list looked like:
-A water park post
-Favorite bites while we were there
-What I wore to the beach recap
-An aesthetic recap of -the whole trip
-Swimsuit pics for LTK
-A few extra images for carousels throughout the summer

For the water park, I knew exactly what I wanted before we even got there. It came out to about 8 images. I got them early, put my phone away, and just enjoyed the day with my family.

One trip. Content for the whole summer and I actually got to be there for it.

Save this before your next trip.  Follow for more digital strategy tips every Tuesday.  That’s what I’m here for.
👀 👀
Clocked out. Locked in. #summer #beach #beachin # Clocked out. Locked in.  #summer #beach #beachin #gulfshores
Eating out on vacation is probably my favorite thi Eating out on vacation is probably my favorite thing about taking a trip. This time at the beach we tried a few new places and some unique bites. Here is my list. 
1. @parlordoughnuts - French toast donut was my favorite bite all vacation. The donuts are huge and a dozen lasted us 3 days. 
2. @gulfshorescoffeeco - I was excited for this because they were so close to our condo. The coconut cold brew was my favorite and the cans made it so easy to take the the beach. Kids loved the dirty sodas. 
3. @delsicecreamob - we have ice cream every night on vacation. The red velvet and the iced box lemon at dels was amazing. 
4. @hightidedaiquirismimosas - a new to us place. Came straight off the beach for the most satisfying lunch. Pizza paninis and waffles on a stick. Obsessed. 

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