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What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

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Fashion, Shopping · March 21, 2018

Menswear – Capsule Wardrobe

Most men are pretty minimal when it comes to fashion.  They do a lot with a little which is why a capsule wardrobe is a good solution to any dressing issues they have.  Capsule wardrobes are an answer to overbuying and closets full of clutter.  The key is buying items that will complement one another so you can maximize the chance to wear each piece.

I was having Coffee and Perspective with my two good friends a few weeks ago and both of them expressed their interest in helping their husbands update and refine their looks but were being met with some hesitation from the guys.  I asked if they thought their husbands would be more receptive if I planned out capsule wardrobes for each of them and we decided to give it a try.

Both of the guys, Frank and Karl, were on board with this…  It’s not like we ambushed them.

I decided to go with the Goodfellow and Co line at Target for a few reasons.  First of all guys don’t like to spend a lot on clothes most of the time so I like the quality and the price point for the Target Brand.  Second, this is an easy place for men to shop and one that they will likely go in alone.  I knew I could make them a shopping list and it would be easy for them to follow.  Third, the clothes look good!  They have a variety of fits and lengths so it is impossible for someone not to find something they like.

So let me tell you a little bit about the guys. Frank is 40’s, a husband and a father of five.  He works full time out of the home and also owns a side business designing and making furniture.  Frank and his wife Karen really love music and if they are going out on a date it is likely to a concert, festival and they love a pub crawl.  Karl is late 20’s, a husband and father or two (almost 3).  He works fulltime out of his house is has a more laid back work vibe.  Karl is also a former baseball player and loves being outside and athletic.  His style is definitely casual and young.

I based these capsule wardrobes off of the guys after work lives although Karl’s capsule could probably double as casual and work.  I took my time to make sure that they have enough options to mix and match all of their pieces as well as fill all their needs from Dad Life to dinners to brunch to church.

{This is an affiliate post with Target.  All thoughts, choices and ideas are mine.}

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When I asked questions about what Frank liked and wanted he said that he wanted something new but that he did like bold colors and patterns and felt like he enjoyed tropical patterns the most.  He also wanted comfortable shoes.  For Frank I included as much pattern as I could while still giving him options.  I mixed in a lot of pink that would give that color pop but also work well with a variety of other colors.

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Karl really likes his casual style.  I made sure to keep longer length shorts in his capsule and also a pair of cargo shorts which was the ultimate compromise because they are a good tailored fit with the additional pockets.  Unlike Frank Karl really likes to have neutral patterns and colors.  I stayed with a navy, oatmeal and gray pallet.

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  1. “40’s” Frank says

    March 22, 2018 at 7:43 pm

    This is great, Tiffany. I love how you added the watch too! Thank you!

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As my boys have gotten older there is almost alway As my boys have gotten older there is almost always a friend eating dinner at my house or spending the night. The weekends are reserved for a driveway full of bikes and basketball. This year, in my haste to make my @shutterfly card I accidentally added a picture with one of my bonus kids in it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #themorethemerrier
You are not shadow banned. Your content is not bei You are not shadow banned. Your content is not being hidden. Most of the time, it simply is not resonating with your audience anymore, especially if you are using the app correctly, which I will explain at the end.

People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
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Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Par Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Party in a whole new direction and it ended up being one of my favorite versions yet. I invited some of my closest friends to Kismet Cosmetics, decorated gingerbread houses, and made our own lip gloss and face glitter. It was such a fun way to reconnect with my friends during the busiest time of year. The full recap is on the blog now. Link in bio.
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