Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
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Dressing Tips, Fashion, Plus, Sponsored, Style, Summer, Swim · June 29, 2021

A Yellow Polka Dot Bikini

{This post is sponsored by Perfectly Priscilla Boutique}

Last summer I said that when I wrote about bathing suits I would start each post with an encouraging statement. I wrote this post last year but with the 4th of July being less than a week away it is a great time for a reminder than it is not worth missing out on things because of your relationship with your body.

Tiffany in a yellow polka dot bikini
This suit is from last season but check out the current swim line.

I think back to all the years I wouldn’t take a picture in a swimsuit. The summers with friends where I would run to the bathroom or to the bar to get a drink when the cameras came out. I can remember wrapping a towel tightly around my waist when I couldn’t find a way to escape them asking me to join their picture. It’s sad, I was creating so much angst for my body in my own head.

This space has been a place for me to share and encourage you, but it has also been a place where I have grown personally. This photo shoot in my ModCloth suit was the first time I felt true freedom in my body. Changing how you see yourself is not an overnight fix. Full disclosure, there are still days I have to choose to love my body. But I will tell you this, you will never regret making that choice to be bold and love yourself just like you are.

If you like it, wear it.

Tiffany in a yellow polka dot bikini
Tiffany in a yellow polka dot bikini

This month marks one year that I have been working with Perfectly Priscilla Boutique. I have continued to collaborate with them because they offer a wider variety of size inclusive clothes than many brands do. I love that I can recommend pieces to my straight sized and plus sized followers. To me, as a plus size woman, the thing I have always wanted was to be able to ask someone where they got their outfit and get it in my size. Don’t get me wrong, having plus size brands and boutiques is wonderful. There were a lot of years where I had a really hard time finding plus size pieces that were in style and on trend. But the ultimate goal for true inclusion will be brands that make the same clothes for all sizes and heights at the same price point.

Perfectly Priscilla is definitely one of the boutiques out there doing the work and I appreciate that!

Check out all of their current Swim pieces here.

XO,

Tiffany

Check out other posts about Perfectly Priscilla Boutique here.

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Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
Why this outfit works. #fashion #style Why this outfit works. #fashion #style
Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Gi Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Give a man three beers and he will make TikTok’s with you in your living room. #marriage
23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. #anniver 23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. 
#anniversary #marriage #piscesarieslove
Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dres Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dressing theory is two fold. 

First, try things. You are going to be stuck if you always go with a comfortable formula. 

Second, if YOU think YOU look good then go with it. You don’t need someone else seal of approval.
Friday. Friday.
Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701 Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701
Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style is about trying new things and to be honest it’s about getting things wrong now and then. What do you think?  Are you pro color palette or pro trying anything?

P.S. peep @caleb.blaine in the background
Trends I’m here for? Chunky necklaces. #spring #t Trends I’m here for?  Chunky necklaces. #spring #trends #trending #goldenlily @shopgoldenlily
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