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There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

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Beauty, Life, midlife · June 25, 2019

My Experience with Laser Hair Removal

This post is in partnership with NUR Medical Spa. All thoughts, opinions and ideas are mine.

I wanted to create this post at the start of my laser hair removal process so you can follow me through all of my treatments and see my final outcome. I will be updating this piece every six weeks.

As part of my midlife tune up I wanted to have laser hair removal. I have PCOS and because of that I get lots of weird little hair growth. I also feel since I had Porter that my underarms were especially dark and it seemed like I was shaving them daily. This also created issues like razor burn and bumps. The idea of having all of the hair gone was appealing.

What is Laser Hair Removal.

NUR Medical Spa uses the Gentlemax Pro Series for their laser hair removal procedures. This is one of the most effective and least painful laser treatments available. This system has an additional cooling element that immediately begins to cool your skin after each laser pulse. This makes the treatment much less painful.

The Gentlemax Pro Series delivers laser pulses into targeted areas on your body that effectively damage the hair follicle so the hair will not regrow after a set amount of treatments. Depending on the area treatments can take from a few minutes up to one hour.

I have PCOS so my results may vary. I could be hair free for years or I may need a touch up in 12 months. It can vary because of hormonal imbalances.

Know Before You Go.

There weren’t a lot of things I couldn’t do before I had my first procedure. They will remove your deodorant before they start. The hair can also be short so you don’t have to avoid shaving before your procedures.

I wore regular clothing to my appointment and they gave me a robe and wrap to change into once I was there.

Treatment One.

The procedure was uncomfortable but not painful. It was more of a shock each time they used the laser on my skin. It makes a sound and you feel the laser hit your skin. I was more bothered by the smell. I didn’t realize that you would smell the hair burning when they were using the laser.

The procedure took about 5 to 7 minutes with the actual laser and there was some prep time and then clean up. The time the laser was on my skin was very minimal. Susan, my technician, was very careful to clean the area and make sure there were no spots she missed.

Immediately after the procedure I had some burning in my underarms and they felt dry. They applied an aloe lotion and within 10 minutes the burning stopped. They told me to avoid sun exposure and to keep them moisturized.

After the first week I exfoliated my underarms and shaved. They were very smooth and I began noticing bumps I had from shaving start to go away.

Treatment Two.

My second treatment was much quicker and less uncomfortable than the first one. I saw some fine hair start to grow back about a week before I was supposed to go in. I did shave once so that I would just a have a smooth surface and plus it’s summer so I am always wearing tanks and swimsuits.

At this point I have noticed zero hair come back. I haven’t shaved since the treatment and that has been about 3 weeks at this point.

I will go back for my third treatment and possibly last in about 4 weeks.

Caring for the Area.

You will want to be gentle to the area for about a week. This procedure also makes you more susceptible to sunburn so remember to put sunscreen on your underarms.

Results.

{Coming Soon}

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Who is panic wrapping??? Who is panic wrapping???
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As my boys have gotten older there is almost alway As my boys have gotten older there is almost always a friend eating dinner at my house or spending the night. The weekends are reserved for a driveway full of bikes and basketball. This year, in my haste to make my @shutterfly card I accidentally added a picture with one of my bonus kids in it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #themorethemerrier
You are not shadow banned. Your content is not bei You are not shadow banned. Your content is not being hidden. Most of the time, it simply is not resonating with your audience anymore, especially if you are using the app correctly, which I will explain at the end.

People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
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Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Par Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Party in a whole new direction and it ended up being one of my favorite versions yet. I invited some of my closest friends to Kismet Cosmetics, decorated gingerbread houses, and made our own lip gloss and face glitter. It was such a fun way to reconnect with my friends during the busiest time of year. The full recap is on the blog now. Link in bio.
I have been creating online for almost a decade, a I have been creating online for almost a decade, and the landscape has shifted in major ways. These are the changes that matter right now.

1. People don’t want to be influenced. They want to be educated. Audiences want content that improves their life, solves a problem or teaches them something useful. Value builds trust and trust builds connection.
2. Organic engagement is no longer the only metric. Paid reach is a smart tool when you know your audience and use the right placements. Sometimes your best content needs a push to reach the right people.
3. Community requires evolution. As you grow, your audience grows. Their needs change. Listening to what they save, ask for and respond to is how you stay connected.
4. Personality is the new niche. People follow people. Your voice, humor and perspective are what separate you from everyone else in your category.
5. Consistency matters, but sustainability matters more. Batching, content silos and systems help you show up without burning out.
6. Social SEO is essential. People use Instagram, TikTok and Pinterest like search engines. Keyword dense captions, clear hooks and intentional hashtags help your content get discovered long after posting.
7. Community is more important than virality. Viral moments fade. A loyal audience stays, engages and converts.
8. Creators are becoming brands and brands are becoming creators. Storytelling, personality and real time content now matter more than being perfectly polished.
9. AI isn’t replacing creators. It supports them. It frees up time so you can focus on creativity, connection and strategy.
10. Transparency matters more than perfection. And transparency isn’t the same as authenticity. Transparency means not gatekeeping and letting people into the process so they feel empowered.
11. Growth isn’t just about new followers. It’s about nurturing the audience you already have. Engagement and trust will take you farther than any number at the top of your profile.

The creator space is evolving and so are we. Staying curious, adaptable and connected to your community is how you grow long term.

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