Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
Why this outfit works. #fashion #style Why this outfit works. #fashion #style
Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Gi Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Give a man three beers and he will make TikTok’s with you in your living room. #marriage
23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. #anniver 23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. 
#anniversary #marriage #piscesarieslove
Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dres Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dressing theory is two fold. 

First, try things. You are going to be stuck if you always go with a comfortable formula. 

Second, if YOU think YOU look good then go with it. You don’t need someone else seal of approval.
Friday. Friday.
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Fashion, Mardi Gras, Style · January 15, 2018

Mardi Gras Ball Fashion

If you have never attended a Mardi Gras Ball you really are missing out.  They are exciting and fun and a true experience to see.  We have been to several over the years and they never disappoint from the entertainment to the fashion.

Mardi Gras balls are a different type of event to dress for.  There are usually rules depending on the Krewe so you always need to ask when attending it there is anything you can’t wear.  They can also be varied in time, duration and formalness.  I always want to look glitzy and fabulous when attending but try to keep the cost down on the dress I am buying.

It shouldn’t surprise anyone that I am probably not going to wear the same dress two years in a row to a ball so if I can find something affordable it’s a win for me.  When attending a formal last year I tried my hand at buying a dress from Amazon.  I wasn’t successful with the first dress I received but the second one fit like a glove and worked perfectly for the event I was attending.  With a few tips and a little time you can find the perfect dress for your event online.

What should you do before you start shopping…

  • Take you measurements.  Basics will be bust, hips, natural waist (2 inches above belly button) and waist at your belly button.  You may also want to measure your shoulders if you are looking to purchase something with a high neck or sleeves.
  • Have an idea of what you are looking for and what works for your body.  There are millions of dresses available online.  It is very easy to get overwhelmed or off track.
  • Check to see if there are any restrictions or dress code for the ball you are attending.  They may have details on your tickets on online about length of dress, neckline, hem style or if you will need gloves.  All of these are important because many balls will not let you enter if you are not dressed according to their standards.
  • Take account of what accessories, shoes, bags and so on you already own.
  • Think about what your date may be wearing.

How to shop online…

  • Start looking early.  This is definitely not the time to wait until the last minute.  You are going to need time to return and possibly order something new or have the dress tailored so make sure that you give yourself enough time to do all of this.
  • When in doubt buy two.  If your budget allows and you are on the fence about sizing buy more than one.  This will help if you are in a time crunch too.
  • Look for retailers reviews.  It’s always a good idea to see what other people are saying.  Read the good and the bad.  Sometimes buyers will let you know how the sizing is.  Did the dress run big or small?  Was it easy to steam?  All of these things can usually be answered in the reviews.
  • Be knowledgeable about the retailer you are shopping with.  Not all things are manufactured and sold in the US so because of this know that European sizing can run small and Chinese sizes run even smaller.  Keep this in mind if the retailer is saying that their Large fits a 8/10.  Check for measurements rather than numbered sizing and when it doubt it may be a good idea to size up.
  • Don’t pass up the option to rent.  There are several great rental sites online that take all the pressure off having to buy something for an event.  They do all the work for you too from shipping to the returns and many of the sites allow you to rent more than one size.
  • Absolutely check the return policy.  Make sure you know if the retailer offers free returns, if not how much it will cost you to return it, what is the timeline for being able to return items and if it’s on sale be sure it’s not a final sale item.

What are some of my favorite online dress retailers…

  • Amazon
  • Nordstom
  • Lulus
  • ASOS
  • Morning Lavender
  • Hazel and Olive

Dress // Earrings // This fur is a piece Big Daddy bought me years ago, here is something similar real and faux.

Don’t miss out on next week’s post which will recap my Prima Donnas Ball.  Hail Prima Donnas!  Happy Mardi Gras!

XO,

Tippy

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Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey Learning to love your body isn’t a linear journey and it often doesn’t have a clear and definitive end. I’ve worked for the better part of a decade on my relationship with my body. I’ve done a lot of work. I’ve honored her, encouraged her, I’ve chosen to see her as good. It’s been an intentional journey to really break down and know my body is good, just as it it. 

But just when I think I have evolved past being critical of myself I go to try on swimsuits and boom I’m back. This past weekend I went to try on swimsuits. It was a last minute decision and I just popped in a store. I talked to an associate and realized she was picking things and putting them into a fitting room for me. I could feel my pulse starting to race. Initially I was frustrated with myself for feeling insecure about trying on suits but then I remembered that this is a journey. I politely told the sales associate that I just didn’t think I was ready to try on. In the kindest way she said, it’s fine, I’ll mark some things down and when you feel ready just come back. 

I’m telling you this story because sometimes it’s easy to look at people who share their lives online and think they some how have mastered living themselves in a way that you can never achieve. The truth is that for many people it’s something we still struggle with from time to time.

Just remind yourself that like most things in life there is no medal for being the most secure person in the room. Give yourself grace and just repeat after me, my body is good just as it is.
Why this outfit works. #fashion #style Why this outfit works. #fashion #style
Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Gi Give a man a beer and he can drink for an hour. Give a man three beers and he will make TikTok’s with you in your living room. #marriage
23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. #anniver 23 years. Not bad for my first marriage. 
#anniversary #marriage #piscesarieslove
Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dres Why this outfit works. Episode 2. My personal dressing theory is two fold. 

First, try things. You are going to be stuck if you always go with a comfortable formula. 

Second, if YOU think YOU look good then go with it. You don’t need someone else seal of approval.
Friday. Friday.
Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701 Bejeweled 🍒 💎 #pizaz @whitneypalmer701
Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style Rules stifle creativity every time. Personal style is about trying new things and to be honest it’s about getting things wrong now and then. What do you think?  Are you pro color palette or pro trying anything?

P.S. peep @caleb.blaine in the background
Trends I’m here for? Chunky necklaces. #spring #t Trends I’m here for?  Chunky necklaces. #spring #trends #trending #goldenlily @shopgoldenlily
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