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You are not shadow banned. Your content is not bei You are not shadow banned. Your content is not being hidden. Most of the time, it simply is not resonating with your audience anymore, especially if you are using the app correctly, which I will explain at the end.

People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
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At Home, Fashion, Shopping · October 7, 2017

Thank Heavens for Little Boys

So recently I have been getting some requests to add little boys into my menswear posts.  I love to dress my boys as much as I love to dress Big Daddy so I am excited to look at boys fall clothing.  I am usually one to shop in the summer during the July sales and stock up for fall because it seems that is when they have the best sales.  As long as you are ok with shopping in last seasons styles for staples this is a great thing to put on your calendar.  July for Fall/winter and January for Spring/Summer.  I generally buy the bulk of my stuff on sale (jeans, dress pants, tees and athletic pants) and then I wait until closer to the season to buy the more seasonal trends (jackets, shirts, sweaters and accessories).

This year I had to take a good look at what I had that would be passed from one boy to the next and also how much I would really need now that Peyton is in a uniform five days a week and Pax is in one three days a week.  This drastically reduced the amount of clothes I was going to need because my kids never want to change after school.  I don’t get it but they are totally comfortable staying in their uniform until they change to go to bed.

So I am going to break this down into three categories: Boys, Toddler Boys and then Baby Boys.  Being that each age is kind of at a different stage it’s great to have a idea of what you need for each stage.

 

Baby Boys

I like to keep it pretty basic for the baby.  I prefer doing a vest over a bulky coat at this age and I also love a good heavy weight cardigan as an outwear option.  We don’t get that many really cold days here so it is easy for them to layer.  Also, when playing the vest is the way to go.  I also love an all in one because they are just easier pieces for little ones to wear especially before they are sitting up.  I usually do a variety of knit tops and bottoms and then a few button ups and dress pants.  I am loving joggers for my thin waist long legged boys because you don’t have to worry about them dragging the ground.

My ideal capsule wardrobe for the baby would be the following: 1 outwear vest, 2 cardigans, 5 all-in-one style outfits, 5 tee shirt type tops, 4 button downs, 4 knit pants, 1 pair of jeans, 2 pairs of dressier pants or joggers.  I also add in holiday pieces like tees for Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas plus a nice outfit for the two latter holidays.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Big Boys

So my philosophy for dressing the big boys is relatively the same as dressing the baby.  I keep it pretty simple and like to mix and match a lot.  My big boys have less hand me downs than the baby does but they usually still have a few lingering pieces from the season before.  Like this year it looks like they will be able to wear their Christmas sweaters again which is great because it was 80 degrees last year for Christmas so they only wore their sweaters for a max 10 minutes.

With their wardrobes I usually get them a vest but will usually invest in a jacket too.  I typically buy something that it more lightweight so it can be layered under.  I am again a huge fan of joggers.  All of my kids have narrow waist and hips and long legs so their pants are almost always too long for them.  Joggers definitely give them a better look than rolling their pants.  Both of my big boys wear uniforms so their street wear is mainly for the weekends, birthday parties, church and the all important brunch.

My ideal capsule wardrobe for my big boys would be the following: 1 outwear vest, 1 light weight jacket, 2 sweaters, 7 long sleeve tees, 4 button downs, 4 pairs of athletic pants, 1 pair of jeans, 2 pairs of dressy pants or joggers.  I would also add holiday tees and a nice outfit for Thanksgiving and Christmas.  I usually buy them a few accessories too like a bow tie or suspenders or vests.  Last year was the first time Peyton got a sport coat.

I am always open to suggestions on posts like this so if you want to see more just let me know and I will start adding them into my regular content for the month.  Hope this points you in the right direction before the weather gets cold.

XO,

Tippy

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Merry Merry. Merry Merry.
Who is panic wrapping??? Who is panic wrapping???
If it’s going to be 80 degrees for Christmas I’m a If it’s going to be 80 degrees for Christmas I’m asking Santa for a spray tan gift card in my stocking.
As my boys have gotten older there is almost alway As my boys have gotten older there is almost always a friend eating dinner at my house or spending the night. The weekends are reserved for a driveway full of bikes and basketball. This year, in my haste to make my @shutterfly card I accidentally added a picture with one of my bonus kids in it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #themorethemerrier
You are not shadow banned. Your content is not bei You are not shadow banned. Your content is not being hidden. Most of the time, it simply is not resonating with your audience anymore, especially if you are using the app correctly, which I will explain at the end.

People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
Candy cane bow tutorial!! #chrismas #christmasbaki Candy cane bow tutorial!! #chrismas #christmasbaking #christmascake #christmastreat #holiday #holidaytreats #coquettechristmas #twee #coquetteholiday
Coffee with my favorite collaborator… Coffee with my favorite collaborator…
Shop local gift guide @shopstelladallas!! Shop local gift guide @shopstelladallas!!
Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Par Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Party in a whole new direction and it ended up being one of my favorite versions yet. I invited some of my closest friends to Kismet Cosmetics, decorated gingerbread houses, and made our own lip gloss and face glitter. It was such a fun way to reconnect with my friends during the busiest time of year. The full recap is on the blog now. Link in bio.
I have been creating online for almost a decade, a I have been creating online for almost a decade, and the landscape has shifted in major ways. These are the changes that matter right now.

1. People don’t want to be influenced. They want to be educated. Audiences want content that improves their life, solves a problem or teaches them something useful. Value builds trust and trust builds connection.
2. Organic engagement is no longer the only metric. Paid reach is a smart tool when you know your audience and use the right placements. Sometimes your best content needs a push to reach the right people.
3. Community requires evolution. As you grow, your audience grows. Their needs change. Listening to what they save, ask for and respond to is how you stay connected.
4. Personality is the new niche. People follow people. Your voice, humor and perspective are what separate you from everyone else in your category.
5. Consistency matters, but sustainability matters more. Batching, content silos and systems help you show up without burning out.
6. Social SEO is essential. People use Instagram, TikTok and Pinterest like search engines. Keyword dense captions, clear hooks and intentional hashtags help your content get discovered long after posting.
7. Community is more important than virality. Viral moments fade. A loyal audience stays, engages and converts.
8. Creators are becoming brands and brands are becoming creators. Storytelling, personality and real time content now matter more than being perfectly polished.
9. AI isn’t replacing creators. It supports them. It frees up time so you can focus on creativity, connection and strategy.
10. Transparency matters more than perfection. And transparency isn’t the same as authenticity. Transparency means not gatekeeping and letting people into the process so they feel empowered.
11. Growth isn’t just about new followers. It’s about nurturing the audience you already have. Engagement and trust will take you farther than any number at the top of your profile.

The creator space is evolving and so are we. Staying curious, adaptable and connected to your community is how you grow long term.

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