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You are not shadow banned. Your content is not bei You are not shadow banned. Your content is not being hidden. Most of the time, it simply is not resonating with your audience anymore, especially if you are using the app correctly, which I will explain at the end.

People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
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10 things, Dressing Tips, Fashion, Style · July 11, 2020

Feminine Flair – Pretty Dresses for Curvy Girls

There is something about a pretty dress that makes me feel so feminine. I love the twirl of a skirt and the feel of the fabric. Some dresses just make me feel beautiful.

When I saw the collaboration that Target was doing with Love Shack Fancy, Cushine and Lisa Marie Fernandez I was so excited because all three brands make beautiful, feminine dresses.

So what makes a dress pretty and feminine to me?

  1. Details – It’s always about the details for me. Add a little lace, some embroidery or buttons and I am sold. It just makes the whole look feel pretty.
  2. Fabric – The fabric sets the tone for me. When I see something hanging on the rack I generally know how it makes me feel by looking at the fabric or feeling it. Pattern is another part of making something feel feminine for me.
  3. Silhouette– I love pieces that accentuate your curves like a more body hugging bodice and a full skirt or a skirt that hits just above the knee. Accents on the feminine parts of a women’s body make me feel sexy and cute.
Love Shack Fancy for Target

In this post I am rounding up some dresses that just have that pretty, feminine vibe…

Cushine For Target

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ModCloth – LBD

ModCloth Black Summer LBD

The thing I love about ModCloth dresses are the details. They take what could be a regular, plain dress and elevate it slightly. The lace trim, buttons and design on the bust make this dress pretty and elegant.

For curvy girls this dress is perfect. I love the top is fitted and there is a little more room on the hips. This will not only make the dress have a cute silhouette but it makes it more comfortable too.

ModCloth – Bold Notion Sleeveless Dress

ModCloth - Bold Notion Sleeveless Dress

This dress is the same concept as the more casual version above. The tighter bodice and wider skirt are going to make this dress cute and easy to wear. I love this dress in particular because it is a play on the classic shift dress. For someone like me who is bigger in the hips and waist I don’t always feel comfortable in shift dresses. Sometimes they are too loose on the top and tight on the bottom so they don’t work. This silhouette is perfect because it gives you that classic look with a little more room in the hips.

Target – Cushnie – Blue and Green Bias Cut Dress

Target - Cushnie

In the past I wouldn’t try a dress like this. Dresses cut on the bias are usually not good for my frame. I am all about wearing what you want and I stand by that but we all know sometimes we feel more comfortable in certain things. I am not going to wear uncomfortable clothes so if I feel like I am going to be pulling on the dress or it’s going to pinch I am not buying it. This dress however was cut right at the hip and just had a beautiful way it wrapped my body. I love that the skirt was made of chiffon which gave is swing and also fit my body well.

Nordstrom – Halogen Tiered Organza Dress

Nordstrom - Halogen Tiered Organza Dress

Skirts that twirl. Just another thing that makes me feel flirty and fun. I love this brand Halogen at Nordstrom because it comes in regular and plus sizes. This dress has everything. Pretty silhouette, soft fabric, fun pattern and twirlable skirt. It makes me want to eat a cupcake.

Nordstrom – Halogen A line Tiered Dress

Nordstrom - Halogen Dress

This dress is just pretty, flirty, twirly, cotton candy looking perfection. I love it. Again with Halogen the dresses come in plus and regular and I love it!

Eloquii – White Bow Dress

Eloquii - White Bow Neck Dress

Shift dress silhouettes can be problematic when you have a curvier shape so I wanted to find just the right one. Eloquii is great about taking classic shapes for more straight figures and working them for curvier and plus size girls. This one is gorgeous because it is in white but the addition of the sheer sleeve and bow detail make it next level. Even thought you can’t twirl in this skirt it is still feminine and fun.

Nordstrom – Good American Body Con

Nordstrom - Good American

I wanted to make sure to include one form fitting dress because when done well these can be extremely flattering and sexy. I love this dress because of the plunging neckline and slit are so sexy and then the hem length and sleeves make it feel a little more classic. I think part of feeling feminine can also mean feeling sexy and hot and this dress would be the one.

ModCloth – Pretty Mesh Midi Dress

ModCloth - Pretty Mesh Tulle Dress

If you are looking for the perfect, pretty, party dress than tulle is what you need. This dress is cute and fun and the skirt makes it to die for. This would be the ultimate birthday party or girls night look. Add a leather jacket to edge it up but still keep it soft and feminine.

ModCloth – Fit and Flare Dress

ModCloth Fit and Flare Dress

The pattern on this dress just makes me think of summer. I love the full skirt, bow detail and the soft shade of green. I also love the little cutout. Cutouts are a fun, sexy little addition just showing that peek of additional skin.

Eloquii – Mock Neck Lace Romper

Eloquii - Mock Neck Lace Romper

Even though it isn’t a dress I wanted to add this romper to the list because it is so cute and pretty. The all over lace give it the perfect feminine vibe while the shorts make it playful. I love how many ways you could wear this and still keep that sweet, cute look you are going for.

Dresses will always be my go to look. Whether I am dressing up or going to something casual dresses just meet my needs and make me feel pretty. I hope this round up helps you find something new to try!

XO,

Tiffany

For More Dressing Tips… Check out this post about wearing oversize silhouettes.

https://wefivekings.blog/2020/02/07/3-ways-to-rock-an-oversize-silhouette/

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Merry Merry. Merry Merry.
Who is panic wrapping??? Who is panic wrapping???
If it’s going to be 80 degrees for Christmas I’m a If it’s going to be 80 degrees for Christmas I’m asking Santa for a spray tan gift card in my stocking.
As my boys have gotten older there is almost alway As my boys have gotten older there is almost always a friend eating dinner at my house or spending the night. The weekends are reserved for a driveway full of bikes and basketball. This year, in my haste to make my @shutterfly card I accidentally added a picture with one of my bonus kids in it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #themorethemerrier
You are not shadow banned. Your content is not bei You are not shadow banned. Your content is not being hidden. Most of the time, it simply is not resonating with your audience anymore, especially if you are using the app correctly, which I will explain at the end.

People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
Candy cane bow tutorial!! #chrismas #christmasbaki Candy cane bow tutorial!! #chrismas #christmasbaking #christmascake #christmastreat #holiday #holidaytreats #coquettechristmas #twee #coquetteholiday
Coffee with my favorite collaborator… Coffee with my favorite collaborator…
Shop local gift guide @shopstelladallas!! Shop local gift guide @shopstelladallas!!
Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Par Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Party in a whole new direction and it ended up being one of my favorite versions yet. I invited some of my closest friends to Kismet Cosmetics, decorated gingerbread houses, and made our own lip gloss and face glitter. It was such a fun way to reconnect with my friends during the busiest time of year. The full recap is on the blog now. Link in bio.
I have been creating online for almost a decade, a I have been creating online for almost a decade, and the landscape has shifted in major ways. These are the changes that matter right now.

1. People don’t want to be influenced. They want to be educated. Audiences want content that improves their life, solves a problem or teaches them something useful. Value builds trust and trust builds connection.
2. Organic engagement is no longer the only metric. Paid reach is a smart tool when you know your audience and use the right placements. Sometimes your best content needs a push to reach the right people.
3. Community requires evolution. As you grow, your audience grows. Their needs change. Listening to what they save, ask for and respond to is how you stay connected.
4. Personality is the new niche. People follow people. Your voice, humor and perspective are what separate you from everyone else in your category.
5. Consistency matters, but sustainability matters more. Batching, content silos and systems help you show up without burning out.
6. Social SEO is essential. People use Instagram, TikTok and Pinterest like search engines. Keyword dense captions, clear hooks and intentional hashtags help your content get discovered long after posting.
7. Community is more important than virality. Viral moments fade. A loyal audience stays, engages and converts.
8. Creators are becoming brands and brands are becoming creators. Storytelling, personality and real time content now matter more than being perfectly polished.
9. AI isn’t replacing creators. It supports them. It frees up time so you can focus on creativity, connection and strategy.
10. Transparency matters more than perfection. And transparency isn’t the same as authenticity. Transparency means not gatekeeping and letting people into the process so they feel empowered.
11. Growth isn’t just about new followers. It’s about nurturing the audience you already have. Engagement and trust will take you farther than any number at the top of your profile.

The creator space is evolving and so are we. Staying curious, adaptable and connected to your community is how you grow long term.

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