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People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
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Caney Lake – Chatham, LA

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This summer we were looking to do something a little different than we had done in the past. We typically take the kids to the beach but after seeing a few friends travel to lakes in the area we started looking for a lake house. Because there just aren’t sunsets like this in the city…

Caney Lake, Chatham, LA
Back dock of The Lily Pad on Caney Lake
The Family at the lake house on Caney Lake

The Lily Pad

The Lily Pad on Caney Lake

If you are looking for a beautiful, quiet, calm, serene, off the grid type trip with your family this is the place for you!

I looked at several different lake houses before we settled on The Lily Pad on Caney Lake in Chatham, LA Chatham is about 4.5 hours from Mandeville. We took a route that brought us through Natchez, MS to have scenic area to stop for lunch. The drive was exceptionally beautiful especially in the part past Natchez. Rolling hills and gorgeous green trees for hours.

We chose The Lily Pad because the home was located on the water and provided us with a 360 view of the lake. There are two houses on the property. The main house sleeps 8 and is the house located over the water. The second house is the tiny house that will sleep 5. You can rent the main house without renting the tiny house but you cannot rent the tiny house without also renting the main house. This ensures that your group is the only one on the property at a time.

Airbnb

This was our first experience renting an Airbnb. I was impressed with how easy and informative their site is and they send all of the reminders to your email. They also make communicating with the hosts a very simple process by encouraging you to introduce yourself when you reserve your rental.

We are still newbies to Airbnb so for more tips and tricks on how to do them you should read this blog post by Dog Mom Travel Diaries. The only big tip that I have is read the reviews! Especially about how responsive the hosts are. Also, I would only rent from a Superhost.

Amenities

Deck on the Lily Pad on Caney Lake

The property is one acre of private land to play and explore. This included things like cornhole, horseshoes, a fire pit and BBQ area. The property was spacious and while there is another house on the property, the tiny house, they will only rent that as an additional sleeping space. This means the entire property is yours. The Superhosts also had a canoe and two paddle board for our use as well as pool noodles and a variety of other floats. There is a pontoon boat and bass boat that are available to rent for an additional charge.

The house itself was larger than I imagined when we were looking online. I loved that there was access to the deck from the master as well as 8 sliding glass doors around the perimeter of the living space. The living room and the master had large tvs that had access to direct tv and also Netflix and other streaming apps.

The kitchen was fully stocked with plates, utensils, serving items and more. I was surprised to see that they even had things like a blender and down to a pizza cutter. We really didn’t need anything to be able to prepare meals.

The check in and out process was simple and there were clear instructions on how we were to leave the house. Communication with the host was easy and she was extremely responsive to me.

Where to Stay

We chose to stay at The Lily Pad but we did drive around to look at other properties while we were there. These are a few of the ones we loved.

Relax on the Lake

The Blind Hog Lodge

Lake Cottage

River Retreat

What to Do

Our family on the deck of the Lily Pad on Caney Lake

Plan to be in or on the water! Caney Lake is known for it’s bass fishing and water sports. We watched lots of boats go in and out from the marina each day. We saw several families water skiing and tubing. The boys were a little too small for that so we stuck to swimming, paddle boarding and canoeing. The boys didn’t seem to have any issues finding things to do and also made a game of digging for clams off the dock one afternoon.

On land the property came with a corn hole set as well as horseshoes and a fire pit. We even had a little visit from some neighboring puppies that made the boys entire trip.

There isn’t a lot to do in Chatham as it is a very small town and most things revolve around fishing and hunting. There is a small marina that has ice, fishing supplies and a few groceries. You can also visit Jimmie Davis State Park which has a large recreation area and splash pad. As I stated before this is a trip to take to be a little off the grid so you aren’t going to find a Starbucks or a fast food restaurant for many, many miles.

What to Bring

Kids eating watermelon on the deck on Caney Lake

I brought too much. Well not too much watermelon because with my krewe there is never enough! Being that we had never done an Airbnb before I was unsure of what I needed. The Lily Pad had pots, pans, dishes, utensils, cups, basically a fully stocked kitchen. They had little added extras like a pizza cutter and some spices. It was nice of them to provide these things but I would not go into every Airbnb thinking they will have all of those amenities. Read here.

We read their list of amenities very carefully. I packed some of the following essentials…

  • paper plates and napkins
  • bug spray
  • sunscreen
  • beach towels
  • life jackets
  • clothing and swimsuits
  • lighter
  • salt and pepper
  • food, drinks and snacks
  • paper towels
  • charcoal
  • bag of ice (we picked up on the way in)
  • toiletries (shampoo, soap, toothpaste, etc…)
  • small first aid kit
  • citronella candles (they ended up having these)
  • coffee and supplies for coffee
  • travel size laundry detergent
  • dish washing soap
  • hand soap
  • kitchen essentials (syrup, mayo, mustard, butter, etc…)

What to Expect

Sunset on Caney Lake

One of the big questions I had going into this trip was, what are they going to expect from us when we leave? Mostly staying in hotels I have never had to navigate this part of the Airbnb experience. When we arrived I saw that there was a typed up list of thing to know coming into the house like where things were and how to turn the AC and TV on. There was also a list for leaving which included things like how to handle the dirty linens, dish washer and setting the AC. The list was easy to manage and nothing was out of the ordinary.

Final Thoughts

I am excited to try Airbnb again as well as coming back to The Lily Pad. This vacation was one of the best we have been on. The kids didn’t want to leave and are still asking when we can go back. The hosts were the best and I can’t recommend them enough. Now don’t everyone book at once because I don’t want you stealing our sweet spot!

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Merry Merry. Merry Merry.
Who is panic wrapping??? Who is panic wrapping???
If it’s going to be 80 degrees for Christmas I’m a If it’s going to be 80 degrees for Christmas I’m asking Santa for a spray tan gift card in my stocking.
As my boys have gotten older there is almost alway As my boys have gotten older there is almost always a friend eating dinner at my house or spending the night. The weekends are reserved for a driveway full of bikes and basketball. This year, in my haste to make my @shutterfly card I accidentally added a picture with one of my bonus kids in it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #themorethemerrier
You are not shadow banned. Your content is not bei You are not shadow banned. Your content is not being hidden. Most of the time, it simply is not resonating with your audience anymore, especially if you are using the app correctly, which I will explain at the end.

People blame “shadow banning” when they see a drop in engagement, but when I look at their metrics, I can usually see small declines long before they noticed them. Social media platforms have millions of users. They are not punishing you because you took a week off.

What actually happens is this. Your audience stopped engaging with your content, and when you took a break, they filled that space with other creators. When you returned, the algorithm showed them the accounts they interacted with most, which was not you. They were not looking for your content because it was not relevant to them anymore. I see this over and over.

There is one real caveat. How you are using the app. If you upload unlicensed music, follow and unfollow in large numbers, run giveaways that break platform rules or respond to comments in negative ways, you can hurt your reach. That is not a shadow ban. That is violating the service agreement.

A case study. Someone told me they was shadow banned. When I looked at their account, a few things stood out.

1. There was no aspirational layer to the content. It was a business that relied on people physically coming in, yet nothing showcased a luxury experience, or a story people could connect with. Photos were blurry, captions were minimal and there was no searchable language to help people discover her business.

2. There was no engagement back to the audience. Not responding to comments is one of the fastest ways to lose your community. People want acknowledgment. If they do not get it from you, they will give their attention to someone else.

3. They were not using the app like a real user.  Instagram and TikTok know you are a business, but they still reward accounts that behave like humans.  Comment, watch stories and sending DMs. That signals genuine activity and community building.

Most of the time the issue is not a shadow ban. It is content, connection and consistency. And the good news is all of that can be improved.
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Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Par Last Christmas, we took the Annual King Cookie Party in a whole new direction and it ended up being one of my favorite versions yet. I invited some of my closest friends to Kismet Cosmetics, decorated gingerbread houses, and made our own lip gloss and face glitter. It was such a fun way to reconnect with my friends during the busiest time of year. The full recap is on the blog now. Link in bio.
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